25 Intelligently Solid Confidence Boosters

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit. – E.E. Cummings The major blocks that stood in the way of me pursuing my dreams for quite some time was the fear of failure...

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The Secret To Powerful Self Care You’ve Neglected

Many of us focus on taking care of our health, eating nourishing whole foods and trying to be active, all while meditating, flossing and taking time away from as many distractions as we can accommodate. These are wonderful acts of self-care, and they’re...

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11 Tiny Changes To Help Improve Your Life

Last week I posted a list of '10 Things I Recommend' and people loved it. So here I am again, back with another light list of ideas to help you improve your life and add a small dose of power to your week.Don't be shy. Let me know your thoughts in the...

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Moving Past Your Series Of Unfortunate Events

Life is often a series of unfortunate events.   Just as we feel everything is going along nicely in one area of life, our 'wheel of fortune' turns suddenly and we're immediately faced with another slew of setbacks or problems. Many of you, myself included,...

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The Secret Of Mastering Fear

Hello Mojomaker! Today, I want to connect with you on something I'm currently wrangling with in my life.  We all know it intimately. Fear. What do we do about it once and for all?  Here are my thoughts about it and would love to hear your comments.  Fear....

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Weaponize Your Wardrobe

Be InnovativeWe all know that distressing feeling of not knowing what to wear. You feel paralyzed when that last minute invitation to an event or perhaps dinner comes your way, fully knowing you're caught with nothing fashionable or up-to-date to put on. Then of...

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Two Mentoring Spots With Pamela Now Available…

My friends,I’m opening up two spots for my 1-on-1 mentoring service, which is aimed for those who would like to get dynamically engaged in the creation process of their goals, dreams and desires. At times, even with your best intentions, it's not easy to...

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10 “Things” I Recommend

Hello there and welcome back! I'm starting a weekly series on something I love...lists. I automatically gravitate toward lists of any kind because they're so easy to consume and are fun to read.   I thought it would be helpful if I began creating...

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Discover Luxury In Quiet

Today , I want to share a few words on the concept of 'quiet'.  It's good to be quiet, but it appears we hardly have time anymore to indulge in this life upholding pursuit.   I have been thinking of "quiet" a lot lately. I've felt the pull to draw back and...

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How To Trigger Elegant Self Confidence

Elegance has always been a fascinating topic to me. Its elusive qualities begged to be demystified. But how?  It's difficult to find adequate words to describe this immutable trait and isn't it interesting that both you and I know when elegance walks in...

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Stop The Schlepp

There is a fountain of youth; It is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of the people you love. When you learn to tap this source, you will truly have defeated age.'  ~ Sophia Loren   A question...how...

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The Magic Hiding In Your Underwear Drawer

You did notice I said your underwear drawer, not underwear, right? Either way, you’re probably wondering where I’m going with this. I’ll share a short story to clear things up a bit. At one point, I felt drab within the confines of my life. It all felt and...

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How To Exude Confidence With Your Body Language

Confidence. It's the secret sauce energizing the trajectory toward a powerful next level experience.  Without it, efforts to build success are fleeting and in some cases, can be harmful to your psyche. A strong foundation of confidence is a required...

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How To Create Your Moment

Create your moments. 'Moments' are those instances that define you and your purpose. The juncture or point when you stop fussing and messing around and actually start behaving like the person you actually want to be or even just as a grown up in charge of...

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The Pleasure & The Pain. A Challenge For Your Life.

Pain transforms, not pleasure ~ Rajendra MuthyeI chose this season of Easter, a time of rebirth, to ask a basic yet tough question. When will you finally commit to your next level transformation? A process, that if taken seriously, will change aspects of...

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It’s That Problem You’re Wrestling

Today I'm shining a spotlight on what's preventing you from moving forward to your next level experience. In this context, your next level = your future self.  The self which operates with greater clarity, agility, ability, power, compassion, joy and love....

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The Relentless Factor

Relentlessness.  What do you know about this adjective for do-ability?  There are those that hear the word and negativity and an aversion to aggressiveness are instantly evoked.  While others immediately get excited by the mere thought of adding this...

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The Key To Go From Good To Great

I love today’s image. To me, it demonstrates the ability of a strong being, typically found cruising the jungle on its daily bad-ass mission, taking necessary down time to enjoy a moment of respite. The trick for us human beings, is not to find...

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3 Hot Tips To Help You Accomplish Your Goals

You know the drill. The one you put yourself through as you make a play to accomplish your goals. Painstaking effort is taken as you craft your initial steps. Excitement builds as you foresee a brilliant, self-actualized future in your mind’s eye. Your heart races....

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How To Erase The Line That Shuts Down Your Success

Think back to your childhood, when as kids, growing up with siblings who annoyed you endlessly, and once you finally had enough of their harassment, drew an imaginary line, either across a room in your home, most likely your shared bedroom, or outside in the sand in...

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How To Use Your Fear As Fuel

What are you so afraid of?… I’m afraid of feeling like a fraud. I’m afraid of being rejected and embarrassed. I’m afraid of uncertainty. I’m afraid of risk. I’m afraid of being unloved, unlovable and unloving. I’m afraid of being a bag lady. I fear not being enough....

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